I am so angry at the moment and this feeling is getting worse each day, what is causing it. It is my darling daughter Pinke who by the way is 4 years old. she is becoming so out of control and I really don’t know what to do about it, I’m at the end of my tether with her.
What is she doing I hear you ask , well where do I start. She punches, kicks and bites, biting seems to be in thing at the moment. I did read somewhere once that biting is a sign of affection in some cultures but believe me this is no affection. She bit her baby brother last night well that was it I saw red, I made her go and sit on the stairs but that doesn’t work she just goes stomping off upstairs and trashes her room.
In fact she has trashed the whole house , emptied all the drawers wardrobes everywhere. It is going to take ages to sort out.
She is just very destructive, breaks everything in sight. These last few months she has broken my all my plant pots smashed them all, destroyed all my dolphin ornaments that I had collected over the years. Ripped photos up, ripped books, destroyed a laptop by completely smashing the screen. Broke loads of toys, even pulled buttons off clothes so they rip and cannot be repaired. So are you getting a picture of what she is like.
Then the worst thing is the swearing just cannot believe she can use words like that. I am sort of getting used to “shut up you lazy git ” being bellowed in the street by her every time she comes home from school. I will not put up with being told to F off or shut the F up. Oh before you all start saying she must have heard it from you, nope she didn’t Mr Savvy or me have never swore in front of the kids. It’s actually our delightful neighbours that swears every other word at the top of her voice my kids have picked it up.
Then there is the violence she hits, kicks and punches, She has drawn blood a few times and has bruised me several times. Just don’t know where all this aggression has come from. I am so scared she will hurt her baby brother , to the extent now I will not leave them alone in the same room. I take the baby with him when I go in different rooms in the house.